So I need to know her reason. I decided to compose a form letter to start sending to people who defriend me. The plan is to send it to someone as soon as I notice they defriend me. I may even send it to some old unsolved cases. This is my first draft (feel free to add suggestions):
Thanks for the friendship but I'm sorry that it recently ended! We had some good times and some bad times but apparently more bad than good, as evidenced by your recent defriending. I was wondering if there was a particular reason you chose to specifically end our friendship via Facebook. Please be as candid as possible! If you need some help, I provided some common reasons.
A) Offensive status updates (please be more specific if possible)
B) Unlady-like behavior
C) General dislike of my person
D) I personally offended you/your honor in some situation (please describe offense if possible)
E) Your friend list has been whittled down to just your extremely close friends and family
Obviously, this does not cover all the reasons so if yours is unique, just let me know! Again, I'm sorry that it had to come to an end but I wish you the best in life.Thanks for your time and comments!
Your former cyber friend,
I just sent this out to a crap load of people who defriended me so hopefully I get at least a couple of responses. Law of Averages and what not.